| I am always amazed how dedicated people is working in china. They devoted themselves so much into the work they do. Doing such ends up with a lot of sacrifice in personal life and family life. It is a fact in China, for the successful individuals and couples, they either have no children or their child is watch by grandparents or Ayi or they will be sent to expensive boarding/private school. So, I would say the pressure comes from inside and outside. The pressure comes from how you value your life. The pity thing is that 'to be the best' and 'to be as good as others can be' have been planted in our mind so deep that often times we forget what is true value for all those effort. And the problem is it is so hard to figure out what is the true value. |