| I definitely agree that it is how you value life. Why i was so
stressed before I had to keep meeting standards set by others, pressure on me. Everyone should define his/her own standard of life, standard of living. As long as you have a set of values, u will be not be affected by external factors. You will think how to accomodate to suit your values not vice versa. Such as I know I need to sleep early and wake up early and need plenty of sleep. Otherwise I will be fan zao and cannot think clearly and be will be nasty. I have gone through these horrible stages. Taking more than I can cope will make me hate work and life. I know what I want in life. I want a balance work life. I want to enjoy and learn from my work. I want weekends to do things I want, hang out with friends, enjoy the nature. I want kids, I want family. I want to learn cooking. I am not prepared to sacrafice my personal life for work and money. Since everyone has their own values to life. Some want money, career, climb up the corporate ladder, then they need to understand they have to sacrafice their personal life, personal relationships with friends and family. I want to help others, do voluntary work, want to help others, bring a smile on their faces. Life is beautiful, there are many things we can do except work and money. Do you agree? |
Pressure is About Expectation