| Jianshuo, you are right. I try to believe that people get married because of love and they fall in love because of personality. I don't believe in nationality or anything like that when considering the relationships. Of course different people have different kind of personality and it also affects what kind of people they feel attractive and who they fall in love with. But what I know? Maybe my view isn't so true :-) I have found myself in a airplane travelling to Shanghai because there is a girl waiting for me in Shanghai, I didn't fall in love because she was beautiful and from Shanghai. I fell in love because of her personality and how she looked at life. Too bad that it did end recently but not because of nationality. And I might be a foreigner and sometimes it is a good thing for us Westerners to feel like a foreigner to remind us that there is world outside of Europe and North America too. The most importantly, she never thought me as a foreigner and I never thought her as a Chinese girl from Shanghai. Did someone get my point ... been long day already. |
Shanghainese Girl Marrying Foreigners