I went the opposite way, so to speak. I didn't go looking

I went the opposite way, so to speak. I didn't go looking for a shanghai girl to date but I found one anyway. That is to say she left to study English in my country (Ireland) and I met her. Now we have being a couple for a while and will probably marry. Being a foreigner doesn't seem to matter to her or for that matter her family. If anything her mother is happier that she met me.

You mention

"Are Shanghainese girls marry foreigners just for money?"
"Are foreigners treat girls in China not as seriously, and play with them?"
"Are the Shanghainese girls just show off, or something else?"

Well as for the money not in my case I am not by any means rich. As for the not treating seriously well maybe in some cases. Are the girls showing off? Again maybe in some cases.

Why do so many shanghai girls date foreign men? Well there is one possibility. There were a lot more girls born than boys in the last 20 years or so. Or so my girlfriend tells me anyway.
Posted by Brian at 2007-12-17 22:48:22
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Shanghainese Girl Marrying Foreigners