| Here is a real story. An old (59) American business guy met a young Chinese college girl (21) from the country side on line and "fell in love". She invited him to visit her and gave her virginity to him in a five star hotel. He told her he would not marry her from the beginning. But she took him anyway. The scene was brutal: he is 194 cm 150 kilogram 60 year old senior and she is 142 cm and 40 kilo 22 young junior. After this, they went on almost one tour per year around China and the old guy is absolutely in love with China. It is kind of a relationship. He bought her and her family a big and nice flat. Support her and her siblings finishing college, send them clothes, gifts, money... No wonder she bought him home the second trip he went to China and introduced him to her parents, sisters... Her family just loved him and looked up to him. She was dreaming and getting herself ready to go visit him in the state once she would finish her master degree and marry him and give him babies... Little she knows, he is not such Mr. right after all, the first trip, the first place they met, the five star hotel, he actually slept with another middle aged married Chinese woman who actually paid her own flight and booked the hotel for the meeting. The same trip, before arriving China, he slept with two other young girls in Indonisia. And the whole time he was supporting her and her family, he has his dirty mind on her sisters and even her mother. His own American family knows about his Chinese women adventure. They were all discussed by his act but puzzled by how those Chinese women would let him do this to them. But the real thing I don't understand is all those women in China he could somehow keep a long term relatinship with and they were all faithful to him and hoping one day they would go to the US visit him or he would come visit and stay with them. That poor middle aged woman even divorced her husband and kept herself for him for 3 years until one day she found out she contracted STD from him. Same as the poor girl. In the end, he got married, but not with any of them and all the romance went cold turkey because his new wife found out about it. And those poor Chinese women had no idea what happened after endless desperate effort to contact him. So sad story? As a Chinese woman myslef, I really don't understand. Worst of all, I married this man who is 27 years older than I and I really really love him. |
Shanghainese Girl Marrying Foreigners