| If it is always a happy ending, everybody is happy, what is the problem? Of course I am not saying ALL international romance is bad. Obviously AussiPB is a good example. But like you said, your case is one of the rare ones. I wonder whether you witness of heard of the bad case like mine. What most people in your circle do about it? NOTHING? They might shoot their heads, say bad bad bad and then forget about it. But think about those eager hopeful girls and women, how much harder for them to believe in another man or especially a foreign man? How can they put their feet on the same ground as other Chinese women who did not enjoy the same benefit of being with a foreign men? How a young girl who received so much by sleeping with a rich older guy can make anything for herself? How can she be able to date a regular Chinese boy after all those years believing she is going to live in US in a comfortable life? You do know being with a foreign man is kind of higher class among regular Chinese. Anybody to blame for those bad case of foreign-romance-goes-bad? Also I notice most foreign men who are interested in Chinese women usually discriminate against or look down on Chinese men. Maybe in a way they use this to justify that no matter how bad they took advantage or exploite the Chinese women, they were actually doing them a favor to liberate them from the control of Chinese small men? About how warm and welcomed Chinese women are treated oversea in Aussi's case, I don't think it explains anything for the issues we are talking about here. Sometimes I wonder why those international companies would not do anything to stop their employees exploitation to the locals. Maybe in many ways, some of those big western business practice is another form of colonisation. Believe it, I have seen plenty of this. And you wonder why the westerners, especially the American are so much hated by the people of the third world countries? Compare to the western expats, the Chinese men are much more displined. They are welcomed and accepted by the locals. |
Shanghainese Girl Marrying Foreigners