| personally i prefer the topic title changes into "how westerners date with chinese girls in China" or something like "dating drama between chinese and foreigner", basically shanghai should be the right place for discussing such a phenomenon, but those cramped words such as "shanghainese girl"or "foreigners", they more or less make me uncomfortable as i start to date with westerners since my 20-year-old, and i realise, generally there are two kinds of westerners surrounding me, looking for true love among oriental ladies or playing with them especially those from china mainland as chinese girls are easy with good skin and younger look. absolutely i feel so sick about the second kind that mentioned above, who are they thinking about theirselves? Once if i found i am dating with such a guy i will dump him immediately. Here, i would like to tell: girls, you are amazing as those from here and there around the world, be confident when you date with foreign guys, be yourself and you will find your guy start to sit up and have a look at you, then you become irresistble... |